Big Brother Naija reality star, Tochi, has sparked a social media debate with a provocative statement about the financial dynamics of modern relationships. Known for his outspoken views, Tochi took to Instagram to make a striking observation: “It’s more expensive now to be a boyfriend than a husband.”
The post quickly went viral, generating a flood of reactions and stirring conversations across platforms. Many users chimed in with personal experiences, opinions, and counterarguments, with some agreeing with Tochi's claim while others challenged the logic behind it.
Modern Relationship Economics
Tochi's comment seems to reflect a growing sentiment among young men navigating dating in today’s economy. From buying gifts, sponsoring vacations, paying bills, to constant social outings and lifestyle maintenance, boyfriends are reportedly spending significant sums even before making long-term commitments like marriage.
Critics argue that marriage comes with larger financial responsibilities—children, rent or mortgage, school fees, healthcare, and family support. However, some commenters sided with Tochi, saying that the current dating culture places huge, sometimes unrealistic, financial demands on men trying to impress or maintain romantic relationships.
A Divided Audience
While some praised Tochi for addressing an uncomfortable truth, others accused him of oversimplifying a complex issue. One user wrote, “Marriage is a lifetime investment, but these days, dating feels like a daily subscription service.” Another said, “If you choose wisely, being a boyfriend doesn't have to be expensive. It’s about partnership, not sponsorship.”
Tochi’s statement, though brief, has once again brought to the forefront issues surrounding expectations in relationships and financial pressures on men in the dating phase. Whether one agrees or not, the conversation reflects evolving attitudes toward love, responsibility, and partnership in modern Nigeria.
